Usually when it comes to attraction the word immediately brings with it the assumption that we’re talking about looks.
Yes, the physical side is an element but if a man hasn’t had a chance to see other qualities they wont hang around long after the chase is over.
Here are the three key qualities that men find attractive in women:
1. A Playful Woman
During a first conversation or date women can often make the mistake of trying to hard to impress a guy and forgetting to relax and have fun.
Men want a girl that they can laugh with and enjoy themselves; if you don’t relax then neither will he and he may get the impression that you take yourself too seriously.
Show him that you are able to laugh at yourself. If he playfully makes fun of you don’t get defensive, laugh and give him as good as you got.
While trying to flirt or be sexy, women can come across as being too intense. Don’t be afraid to be silly with him. Don’t concentrate so hard on being attractive that you wont crack a stupid joke or pull a funny face. A guy will love seeing this side of you and will find your ability to let go and enjoy yourself very attractive.
2. A Passionate Woman
Trust me a woman who knows what she wants and is passionate about her work or hobbies is very attractive. A man is attracted to someone who has more going for her then just the way she looks and is attracted to someone he finds interesting to listen to not just look at.
Watching a woman talk passionately about something she is interested in is a turn on. What’s more, he’ll also see you as more of a challenge if you show him you have a full life with other things you’re interested in other then dating.
3. A woman who is self assured, not arrogant
Women can often make the mistake of trying too hard to be sexy and end up seeming a little arrogant. Men are attracted to confident women but if they don’t see a flash of a vulnerable side you may come across as full of yourself, a huge turn off.
Men are attracted to women who are self assured and confident in what they want. But don’t be so determined to prove you’re an independent woman that you come across as aggressive.
Everyone has flaws and men want to feel that sometimes they can look after you, i.e. that you are not so sure of yourself that you’re verging on taking on the role of dominatrix!
Remember – Guys want to see all the different sides to you: Playful, Sexy, Caring. All three are important. What’s not attractive is when women are only one thing i.e. Just sexy, or just friendly.
Let a man see all of these dimensions and he’ll want to stick around for the long-term! So there you have it 3 surefire tips to attract men that will help you not only attract a guy quickly but will give you a better chance of turning it into something special.