How often have you spent weeks, or even months talking to that particular girl you like, then working up the courage to finally ask her out, only to hear those dreadful words:
“Oh, you’re so sweet, but I don’t really see you in that way. I only like you as a friend… “
When you hear that, it’s as if she has reached deep inside of your chest and ripped out your heart!
Hurts, doesn’t it?
Here are the biggest mistakes that men make and that you should avoid doing:
1 – They never tell the girls their true intentions!
This is the most common reason why guys eventually get friend zoned.
They like the girl; they want to go on a date with her, have fun, sleep with her, and eventually start a relationship. But they’re so afraid of rejection that they always skirt around the issue, never clearly stating what they want and letting the girl know that they actually like her romantically!
You must understand that rejection is a part of life and that no matter what you do – not everyone’s going to like you.
That’s why it’s always best to let the girl know that you’re interested in her romantically, and that you’d like to go on a date with her.
If she says yes – great! If she says no – at least you know where you stand with her, and you can move on, saving yourself a lot of time!
2 – They treat her like a princess!
If you never disagree with the girl, never express your own opinion, always feign interest in the topics that she brings up, even if they don’t interest you – the girl will notice this and won’t respect you.
If you’re constantly afraid of offending the girl or making her angry, always “walking on eggshells” so to speak – she’ll see that you are a spineless guy and lose all attraction towards you.
That’s exactly why “Bad Boys” get to have all the fun, while “Nice Guys” are left behind in the dust.
Bad Boys don’t fear rejection, aren’t afraid of offending people, of living life, of judgment from others. They don’t give a rat’s behind about what anyone thinks of them and they don’t filter their thoughts when they speak – they tell it like it is.
That is incredibly attractive to the vast majority of women, and exactly the reason why most girls fall for these so-called “rebels”.
3 – They constantly doubt themselves!
Self-doubt is one of the most unattractive qualities that a man can possess.
If you can’t make decisions, question your every move, hesitate when talking to the girl, touching her, leading her, and other similar things – you’re not going to get anywhere!
Women don’t like guys who are wracked with insecurities and self-esteem issues. It’s best that you learn how to get those things handled!
4 – They bore women half to death!
This is another huge mistake that most men make.
When talking to girls, they start asking all the boring, and uninspired questions like “Where are you from?”, “What do you do?”, “Where did you study?”, and so on and so forth.
Every girl has heard these questions a hundred times! You’re there to flirt, have a fun, interesting, and exciting conversation with her – and not to conduct an interview!
Refrain from asking the things that a thousand other guys have asked her – and learn some much-needed social skills that spice up a conversation. Skills like storytelling, joke telling, teasing, flirting, spiking emotions, etc.
Give her a reason to want to go on a date with you! Don’t bore her to death and show that you’re both going to have a fun time if she accepts your invitation!
If you follow this advice and always make your intentions clear, you’ll never land in the friend zone!
At worst, you’ll get rejected and know where you stand with her. Then you can quickly move on to another girl and stop wasting time!