Starting up a conversation with a girl can be intimidating and sometimes even a tad bit stressful. The more you like her, the stupider you are liable to feel. But, there are ways to get past this and get on with the conversation. There are ways to make her literally fall in love and become completely infatuated with you and only you to the point where she will not be able to stop thinking about you.
Here are the three simple secrets you need to know right now:
1.Since she is so beautiful and you are so nervous, one of only two things can happen. Either you suck it up and go over and start up a conversation with her, or you can become so completely wrapped up in your fear that nothing happens and she never notices you. Women like a confident guy who doesn’t let their insecurity get in the way. You are going to have to get over all of those insecure thoughts floating around in your head and approach her. If you are not confident, at least pretend you are. It will pay off.
2.Once you get over the hardest part (which is approaching her), you have practically gotten it all taken care of. Now, all you have to do is speak. Simply tell her what your name is, your age if you prefer, whether you are there alone or with friends, etc. Use small talk to break the ice. Once you have introduced yourself, just stand there and let her do all the talking. Ask her what her name is, where she is from, etc. Really listen to her when she talks. Women love a guy who lets them talk, and for that reason, she will find you even more interesting. Just agree with what she says and be sincere.
3.If there is an awkward silence, simply ask her another question about the things she has previously expressed. Be careful not to go into too many conversations about yourself. It seems harsh, but women really do not like hearing about the biggest fish you caught on your last camping trip. Most women like to discuss things such as favorite restaurants, what is happening in the news, their favorite television shows, etc. Find something you have in common with her by asking subtle questions. Once you have reached some common ground, run with it. Always add a bit of humor into your conversations because women love to laugh.
Once you have gotten the ball rolling, getting the girl you want to like you will be as simple as pie. It really all boils down to good manners. Remember the things your mother taught you when you were a kid? Listen when you are spoken to, do not speak when someone else is talking, open doors for other people, always smile, dress nicely, and always say thank you, etc. If you just stick to what is simple and proven to work, you will have no problems in the romantic department.