If you are feeling miffed and insulted because the guy you like has been too busy to pursue you, then you should know that there are many like you who have been ignored and neglected by their men who say that they are “busy”! Don’t lose hope – there are ways to attract these busy bees and get them to show interest in you again.
Take charge and plan your moves
Don’t take things lying down. Make up your mind to do something about it and take charge! It is important to plan your moves and then act! This is because action brings results. The first thing you should do is ignore the guy and start concentrating on making yourself more attractive in every way.
Don’t make it look like you are chasing him
Even as your goal is to make him sit up and take notice of you – don’t let it be obvious. All you go to do is pretend that his busy schedule and behavior of ignoring you does not bother you a bit! When he notices your attitude (and he is sure to) he is bound to be affected by your nonchalance.
Look sensational and plant yourself in his path
The first thing to do is make yourself look absolutely stunning and beautiful. Catch the eye of all around and dress in a way that is sure to grab his attention no matter how busy he is. Plant yourself in his path and ignore his stares. Be friendly and charming if you must, but don’t show interest in him. This is bound to attract him.
Make his colleagues and the other guys crave you
Become friends with his friends and colleagues. Make them admire you and even ogle you. Dress in a way that ensures that they cannot take their eyes away from you. Sooner or later they are bound to sing your praises and he is going to see that you are one of the most popular girls around. You can be sure that he will try to get in touch with you again.
Flirt like an expert and make him swoon over you
When the time is right and you are sure that you are causing ripples of interest everywhere, you can single him out and show him that you like what you see! This will encourage him to pursue you. A little flirting at the right moment will make him eager to get closer to you.
Make him realize that you are worth his time
Don’t give him too much of your time. Let him see that the boot is on the other foot and that now you are calling the shots! Whenever you do allow him to be mesmerized by your beauty, talents and personality, make sure that he realizes that you are worth his time. You can be sure that he will never be “too busy” for you again.
Draw him by your confidence, appearance and accomplishments
The more he gets to know you, the more he will learn to appreciate you. Let him recognize your talents, accomplishments and be wooed by your sex appeal. Never show him that you are insecure. Instead the more self confidence you ooze, the more he will be attracted to you.